Since my younger days, I never cared much for Bourbon. When I started drinking at around 17, it was mostly beer, or maybe a bottle of Boones Farm Wine if we could score it. When it came to whiskey, there were always a couple of guys pushing it, but we generally stayed away from it – too drunk too quick…

And then someone introduced us to a drink called a Blue Blazer. A Blue Blazer (for us) was a shot of Southern Comfort you lit with a match, and then drank in one swallow. Howard and I had those a couple of times and thought they were great. We also introduced our friend Dale to them, and decided to have a bit of fun. Instead of one shot, we poured him two and lit it. As he tried to swallow the drink, he couldn’t get it all down and coughed up some blue globules of flame, which we all thought was pretty funny. At some point, we outgrew Blue Blazers and the hilarity of watching a friend spit flaming liquid out his mouth.

The Three Innocents, Max, Howard and Dale, along with a not so innocent Blue Blazer

I also remember trying Bourbon and Coke, or Jack and Coke (it sounded cooler) several times in high school and then later at West Point. In my memory, the bourbon we used was generally Jim Beam, although I could be wrong about that. In any case, I didn’t like it. Jim Beam or Jack Daniels, it didn’t matter. It just never tasted good and as a result, I stayed away from whiskey. I also tried a Bourbon and Ginger (Ginger ale) at some point, and it was even worse.

Years passed. I learned to enjoy brandy when we lived in Europe, but still stayed away from whiskey. If I drank whiskey at all, it was in an Irish Coffee.

In 2005, Cathy started a job at Great Meadow. For those of you living here in Virginia, you know it as the site of the Gold Cup, one of the premier Steeplechase Horse Races in the country. The Great Meadow Foundation itself is involved in many charity events, particularly related to preserving open space, and holding equestrian events. As a result, they hold several activities to attract donors or raise money through silent auctions and other means. Cathy typically worked these happenings, and occasionally asked me if I wanted to attend. I usually couldn’t go because of my job, but finally on one occasion, the fates collided and my schedule opened.

On the appointed evening, I showed up at the Great Meadow Summer House. I saw Cathy and gave her a kiss hello, and then said Hi to her boss, Leslie. After a couple minutes of chit chat, they went back to work, and I headed to the bar to order a Gin and Tonic.

As I stood in line, I noticed three older ladies in line ahead of me. I was 50 at the time, and my guess is they were all in their 70s. I recognized one of the them, Pat, and said hello. She introduced me to her two friends and the four of us started talking with each other, while waiting in line.

Finally, it was our turn to order.

Pat looked at the bartender and said “Bourbon, neat please”.

Friend One said “Manhattan up, please.”

Friend Two looked at the bottles behind the bar and said “Makers Mark on the rocks please.”

All eyes turned to me. I have to admit, I panicked a bit. In front of these three septuagenarians, there was no way I was going to say in a wimpy voice “Yes, I’ll have a Gin and Tonic please.” Glancing about, I succumbed to self induced peer pressure, deepened my voice a bit and said “Yea, um, I’ll have a Makers Mark on the rocks, please.

The bartender brought the drinks and I paid for all of us. We took our drinks and drifted over to a nearby open space to continue our conversation. When we arrived, Pat raised her glass, and said “Cheers!” We clinked, and as I raised the glass to my lips, I remember thinking, “God, Hall, what the hell were you thinking? I hope this isn’t as terrible as I remember.” And then something happened.

I took a sip, and…… what? I took a second sip. This was pretty tasty! I could learn to appreciate these! As our conversation ended a few minutes later, I wandered over by myself to contemplate why I suddenly enjoyed bourbon. As I was thinking, I ordered a second Makers Mark on the rocks. Much like the Grinch in How the Grinch Stole Christmas, “I puzzled and puzzled ’till my puzzler grew sore…

Suddenly, it hit me. I had probably never disliked bourbon! What I disliked was Coke. The Coke brought tooooo much sweetness to the drink. Bourbon has an inherent sweetness to it. The additional sweetness of Coke (or Ginger ale) sends it over the top, or at least it does for me.

And that’s how I began to drink bourbon. Over the years since then, I’ve tried many types of bourbon. Usually with a bit of ice, although occasionally neat. Through my friend Wayne, I’ve had the opportunity to try, and gain an appreciation for, many different bourbons, whiskeys, and whiskies, to include the Holy Grail, Pappy Van Winkle. I’ve also migrated back to bourbon mixed drinks, although I stick with the classics – an Old Fashioned, a Manhattan, occasionally a Boulevardier, or if someone else is making them, a Mint Julep.

I just don’t let a Coke bottle anywhere near my drink.

Addendum:

• In 2005, the current Bourbon Craze hadn’t really started yet. Here in Virginia, there were always bourbon drinkers, particularly among people in the horse industry.

• As a side note, I’ve noticed my last three blogs have all been drinking related. Maybe it’s Covid, maybe it’s the time of year, or maybe it’s just that I enjoy a drink (or two). In any case, I’m going to try and take it one blog at a time and get off this kick.


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5 thoughts on “From Blue Blazers, to Bourbon on the Rocks

  1. My grandfather loved his Manhattans, as did my father, and in time me. Always Maker’s Mark, 2:1 ratio with Martini & Rossi vermouth, and three cherries.

    Given the advice of my PCP a couple of years ago to reduce my weekly consumption of alcohol, I agreed to only have one on Fridays and Saturdays, with my wife and her traditional vodka and tonic.

    According to my calculations, this Friday will be November 27, 2027.

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  2. I have probably had 10 beers in my life. When I started drinking at 15 years old in Brooklyn New York via an incredibly amateurish phony draft card I came to hate the taste of the Pabst Blue Ribbon or Shaeffer that the bartender would easily pour into a 6 ounce beer flute and take my $.15. So I switched to the famous 7&7, Seagram’s Seven Crown and 7 Up. When I became aware that ordering this was a dead giveaway that I was under age, I switched to scotch and my drink of choice became Chivas Regal on the rocks. I hated the taste and how it made my lips go numb but I liked how it sounded. I tried different scotches over the years and some were better than others but I still didn’t really like the taste. And then I met a unique girl named Kathy and she introduced me to bourbons. She was a 60’s wild child and I was just a drinking buddy but she liked her bourbon and enjoyed taking me along as a wingman. I have pretty much stopped drinking entirely over the years more out of a lack of enjoyment than anything else. However, as the Dos Equus guy says when I do drink it is always bourbon on the rocks.

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