Mrs Thelma Finkeldey

I fondly remember my First Grade teacher, Mrs Thelma Finkeldey, along with her purple hair. She was an influence I’ve never forgotten, even though First Grade ended fifty eight years ago, in 1962. From grade school through grad school, I had a number of teachers. Many were good, some were bad, and several were forgettable. A few were special. Mrs. Finkeldey was one of the special ones. All teachers should have such a lasting impact on their students.

She was one of a kind for many reasons, but the first thing you noticed was her hair. It was purple, or green, or pink, changing with regularity. It turned out her younger sister was a cosmetologist in Ottawa and dyed Thelma’s hair different colors. It was pretty amazing, and made her stand out among the other teachers, who all seemed staid in comparison. We kids thought it was great, although I don’t know what the other teachers made of it.

More importantly, she made school fun. Learning was always an adventure in her class, no matter the subject. I remember one exercise which went on over several days, or weeks. We made the classroom into a “city” and each of us had a different job. Each of us made our office out of a book cover and set it on our desk. I was the radio broadcaster. My friend Howard was the banker, and cut up the money we could use at Ralph Syverson’s pizza parlor. As the Fire Chief, Leonard kept us all safe. Looking back, I’m sure we learned about math, money, working together, jobs, and any number of other subjects. At the time, it just seemed fun. Amazingly, my mom saved the book cover for ABCD Radio Station and gave it to me several decades later.

ABCD Radio Station was on the air in 1961-1962

We also performed plays in class. Sometimes “live”, sometimes with puppets. Howard and Mooie (Mary) both distinctly remember performing in Sleeping Beauty. Howard was horrified when he learned he needed to kiss Sleeping Beauty (Mooie) to wake her. Seeking help from Mrs Finkeldey, she advised him to fake it. Howard air-kissed Mooie from about a foot away…. 😉

And while we focused on reading, writing, and ‘rithmetic, I also distinctly remember science “classes” in first grade. I think even us kids were aware of the Space Race with the Soviet Union. On February 20th, 1962, a little over halfway through our school year, astronaut John Glenn became the first American to orbit the Earth. Mrs Finkeldey talked about Glenn, and taught us about the solar system and the (then nine) planets. If memory serves me correctly, there was a mobile of the planets hanging in the classroom. Combining current events and science for first graders….who knew?

The “book” on Science I created in First Grade

When I completed First Grade in June of 1962, Mrs. Finkeldey, sent a promotion letter to my parents. You can see in the letter she starts by mentioning “Kieth has made excellent progress…”. I assume since she used my correct name the next four times, I really was promoted. ;-). Joking aside, it amazes me that I have such clear memories of First Grade. I have to believe she is the reason.

Evidently, both Keith and Max were promoted

I moved on to Miss Williams and Second Grade the next year. Mrs Finkeldey moved on as well. Prior to coming to McKinley, she previously taught in Effingham and Rockford, Illinois. She moved back home to Ottawa after her husband passed away, and only taught at McKinley a year or two, before retiring as an Illinois teacher. She left Ottawa after our year, and moved to Gary, Indiana, A few years later, while teaching Third Grade in Gary, she had a student by the name of Michael Jackson. Yes, that Michael Jackson.

Mrs Finkeldey with Marlon and Michael Jackson

Several years later in 1976, Mrs. Finkeldey passed away at the age of seventy. She is now buried in Effingham.

I was recently thinking about Mrs Finkeldey and some of my other “special” teachers over the years. People who were influencers, or motivators, or later, mentors. It seems a bit silly to reminisce about First Grade, and yet, Mrs. Finkeldey has stayed in my memory, while other teachers have faded away. Talking with some of my old classmates, they too remember her, and not just for her colorful hair. People remember math classes, learning to read, and the teaching and singing of Christmas songs as the holidays approached. A couple listed her as one of the influences in becoming a teacher. Other friends became involved in acting. And me? I’ve had a lifelong interest and belief in science. Although never a scientist, I became an engineer, and I can’t help but think Mrs Finkeldey was one of the reasons.

This year, with the CoronaVirus, we all know school ended differently for most kids. Distant learning became necessary, with physical classroom time eliminated. I know most parents carried a heavy load ensuring their children were educated over the last several months. My hope and bet is there were also several Mrs. Finkeldeys keeping school fun and interesting, no matter the circumstances.

…Teach, your children well…

Addendum:

  • Kay Halterman was the younger sister who became a cosmetologist, and colored Thelma’s hair. According to Kay’s daughter, Judy Wunderlich, Kay was entering different styling competitions, and sometimes practiced on Thelma.
  • Many thanks to my Kindergarten teacher, Charlean Grobe, along with classmates Howard Johnson, Tim Stouffer, Mary “Mooie” Cunningham, Lynn Galley Robinson, Joy Starjak Algate, Leonard Mayberry, and Darlene Burke Vanchura for their memories. While not all were in Mrs Finkeldey’s class, all remembered her hair. It seems purple was a favorite color.
  • Special thanks to Judy Wunderlich, Thelma Finkeldey’s niece. She provided additional background information on her “Aunt Dorrit” (what they called her), and her mother Kay, the cosmetologist responsible for that colorful hair.

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6 thoughts on “Mrs Thelma Finkeldey

  1. This is really a personal note to Max.

    Max-great story! I’m Karen Wunderlich Keipert -Thelma Finkeldey was my “Aunt Dorett”. I’m also Judy Wunderlich’s daughter & Kay Halterman’s granddaughter. I grew up in Lockport but my siblings and I spent lots and lots of time w Grandma Kay and Aunt Dorett . Our Aunt shared often the blessings of being able to teach children and how they blessed her in return. She probably even spoke of you and your fellow students. What a wonderful tribute to her! I love that your mom saved your projects and that crazy promotion letter w Keith’s name on it. LOL!
    Aunt Dorett was always teaching us and everyone she met. We thought it was just having fun!!!!! We always came away wiser , richer, and full of love. She had lots of other talents- sewing our wedding dress-worn by 3 generations so far, Cooking, and and oil painting.

    She shared with us Lots of stories of life before segregation in our country. She taught rural (Effingham) segregated and then in nonsegregated (Ottawa)schools. She had inspirational stories from her work in the women’s Corp. WWII era factories and at the armory. During the war she worked After school or weekends were spent doing assembly work, riveting and such. She and other women Of all “colors” worked Side by side in the war effort. It was personal to them having lost our uncle Robert Halterman (From Ottawa) in Pearl Harbor.
    Her experiences w people of color gave her a passion to bring quality creative education to all children regardless of race. That is why she went to Gary Indiana . The admin and fellow teachers in Gary thought she was a “spy” and gave her the students w poor attendance- that’s how she became so familiar teaching the “Jacksons”when they were in town, she partnered w Mrs Jackson teaching her how to help her educate her children while traveling in show business. Now-a-days we would call this assisting her with homeschooling her large family.. Because of her, the Jackson family was able to continue growing in their studies long after they left Gary Indiana during at least decade of touring as superstars. Aunt Dorett told us that she told all her students that they were all capable of learning and achieving greatness – and Never let them feel inferior due to skin color. Truly inspiring them to achieve stardom!
    Many of us have followed in her footsteps as creative teachers – from teaching little ones w special needs, refugee families, some in art, math – science – my niece is even a college professor making assessments more valid and fair for all learners.
    Yes we’ve all been working steadfastly during the Covid Quarantine however and wherever on line w students in order to provide Needed education.
    Then following that we are experiencing all these racial things – I can just hear her say- there is no excuse for injustice. Speak up Where ever you are – do something- say something and make a difference to make things better.

    Thank you again for your lovely tribute to her . Sincerely . Karen K.

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    1. Karen – what a wonderful tribute to your aunt, and what an amazing woman. Thank you for sharing this very personal story. And thank you particularly for the stories of her working with people of color. In our current times, it is always great to hear stories of inspiration. Max

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  2. Another great story Max! We are who we are today because of people like Thelma Finkeldey. They helped to shape our character without us even knowing. I have fond memories of my Third Grade teacher Mrs. Walker. She was mean but I learned a lot.

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    1. Thanks Mark, and good to hear from you. Yes, you are right. Shaping our character, without us even knowing it is a good way to put it.

      My next blog will be a bit more serious. Still trying to wrap my head around the events of the past week. Stay safe my friend.

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